To deal with the first factor, daughter and mother ought to allow each one to finish their statement without interruptions when they are talking. When one is interrupting the other, the other will politely say: can I finish please. Keep repeating that phrase until the other stop doing it. Do not say: you are interrupting me again. Or keep quiet. The aim is to avoid creating another communication jam or breakdown while trying to fix it.To handle the second factor, one must always resolve all misunderstandings as soon as possible. Just ask simple questions like;what has happened? Do you mind telling me more? Always seek clarifications in a polite and peaceful manner. Watch the tone of your voice. Do not let misunderstandings last. Solve them as fast as possible. Never misinterpret the other because it will create more misunderstanding.To avoid that criticism ruins the good relationship between a mother and daughter, one must learn to use positive words. For example instead of saying I hate the way you speak to me. One may say I can not believe that you talk to me on that tone. One wants to thinks first before addressing the other because one is trying to diffuse the criticism.
Never allow the disrespect to come between daughter and mother. Be polite to each other. Rest assured that being polite does help any relationship.
As soon as one notices that one has been disrespectful in any way, just say sorry right there. If you forget or could not apologise right away. Come back or call back few days later and say something like: I am sorry, I do not mean to be disrespectful to you. Please accept my apologies. Alright.
To fix the fifth factor that causes conflict between daughter and mother, one must be guarded to upset the other just by being like a stubborn child. Listen to each and other, and try your best to please the other if she asks you to better yourself.
One should avoid embarrassing the other. Try instead to make them proud. Believe or not, people always like people that make them proud. Do not just say: she is always complaining about my hairstyle or she is asking me to change that coat that I have been wearing for years.
Pleasing another and also letting them know that one has done what they were asking will make them appreciate one. With that, a rich relationship may blossom.
A quickest way to get a beneficial change in a relationship is to put oneself at the place of the other and adopt their viewpoint without interference. By taking another's viewpoint, one will quickly understand them.
Really, a mother and daughter that understand each other will get along nicely.