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How To Confront Something

Have you ever heard someone saying: I do not like to 

confront or I hate to confront?
Probably you have heard that few times before.  Commonly, 

people refrain from confronting anybody or anything just 

because they see it as a negative behavior.  However, it is 

necessary that one learns to confront.


What Can One Confront?

One can confront oneself, another and others.  One can also 

confront problems, obstacles, resistances, situations, challenges 

and anything one decides to confront.  One can confront 

the weather, winds, history and realities.  It is possible to confront 

weaknesses, ignorance and sicknesses.  Now that you realize 

that you can confront anything, you are now ready to learn 

how to confront.

Step One How To Confront

The first step to confront anything is to look at it from a safe distance.  

The safe distance is very important.  


A beginner who wants to confront a crab may chose to look at it from 

ten meters.  Another person may say twenty or two meters away.  

However, a person who is not afraid of a crab will hold it in 

his hands.  In theory the ability to confront is inversely proportional 

to the distance one can comfortably 

look or admire what one wants to confront.

So a person with better confronting skills relates to a shorter safe 

distance but another with lower ability 

to confront will keep a long distance.

So a person may begin to confront something or someone twenty 

meters away and steadily reduce that 

distance to zero when one is no more afraid of what one is facing.

Second Step How To Confront

The second step to confront something is to face it.  Usually when 

a person is afraid of something he turns his back to it.

A person turns his back to a lion as soon as he sees it and begins to 

run because he is
afraid.  


One can look at something from the sideways without facing it.
People look down when they talk to someone they are scared of.  

To face also means to dedicate a full attention to it and solely focus 

on it.

To face means be ready to fight, resist or hold one's position. 

To face does not always mean that one has the power to confront.  

To face is one of the first step to confront something.  Imagine 

fighting something without facing it.  That would be irrational.


The Third Step How To Confront

To confront something is to understand it.
In fact this is the most important step to confront anything.  Imagine 

those who invented vaccines.  

One will agree that they understand the disease that they are 

confronting to the point of creating a vaccine to deal with it.  

Truly if one understands one's adversary, one will also understand 

their weaknesses and exploit them.  Whatever one is confronting

it is paramount that one understands 

it or at least begin to do so.  As one gains more understanding, one 

will slowly but surely defeat it. 

What is your challenge today?
Take that step and begin to gain more knowledge and wisdom 

about it.  It is written in the Bible that my people die because of 

the lack of knowledge.

Do you know that lions kill human beings
and human beings also stay away from lions.  Now, imagine a person 

who has learnt to understand lions to the point of even daring to play 

football with lions.


Oh yes, you could not believe that.
Watch this video at the bottom of the page

lion whisperer Kevin Richardson in South Africa

Now, you understand why people are dying.

People die only when they do not fully understand what they are going 

through.  That is it.  Understand what you are confronting first then 

it is no more a problem or that problem is gone or under control.


Fourth Step How To Confront

The fourth step to confront anything is the combination of the first 

three steps.  That is love.  It is like winning an enemy over to the point 

where he or she becomes an ally. 

Remember the last time you said "Oh I used to hate garlic before but 

now I love it".  "I used to hate literature before but not now". 

Indeed, it will be easier to understand what one loves.  One can easily 

face it without any worry.  

Moreover, one does not have to keep a safe distance from what one loves.  

Instead, one can come closer and closer to it and even embrace it.  

Finally, love understands, comes closer and faces anything.  Obviously, 

one does not confront what one loves.  


Note that love in this contest is not just a feeling or any types of relationship.

It is a force that is split into three.

1/ Desire to understand what one is confronting.
2/ Desire to face what one is confronting.
3/ Desire to be in the proximity or take the place of what one is confronting.

Conclusion

The ability to confront is an essential ability that many lack.  For that reason,
people are helpless when they face a problem or danger.  From today, with
those four specific steps, one can learn to confront something that may come.

As always, I enjoy writing this article and I hope it has been useful to you.  

If that is the case, feel free to share it on social media.


This article is written by George Beaulieu.